A dinner voucher is not life changing. Nor does it need to be. Its value might simply be an evening together that would otherwise never happen, a spa day that creates permission to relax, or a night away that offers a welcome change of scene.
Research by behavioural scientists Amit Kumar, Matthew Killingsworth and Thomas Gilovich found that people experienced more positive anticipation while waiting for an experiential purchase than for a material one. The point is not that experiences are automatically “better”, but that they create several moments of value: when received, while being planned, during the visit and later, when they become part of a shared memory.